What to expect
Doctors are busy. They can be very difficult to get in touch with. Often
your communication will go through a nurse, office manager, or secretary.
They are people too and don't respond well to demands and unfriendly conversations.
Make sure to stay on their good side. Even if you have to bite your lip
occasionally, it will pay off in the long run. Of course, if you're very
worried and frustrated about your spouse's condition, it can be tough to
keep a level head. Do the best you can.
How to deal
Once treatment is started, you will continue to see a variety of specialists
with your spouse. Some you will like and some, for whatever reason, you
may not.
It is okay to seek out another specialist, one you are comfortable working with. You have to put a lot of trust in these doctors, so find one you and your spouse both like. This extends to the office staff also.
Occasionally, you may have communication issues with your doctors and medical staff. When this happens, it is important to know what you want when you speak with the staff. Donçt get caught up in bickering. You also have every right to expect to speak with the doctor. You will probably have to wait for a phone call, but if you are not satisfied with the answers from the staff, ask to speak with the doctor. If your situation is not resolved and communication problems remain an issue, find a new doctor who you can work with. Feeling your concerns are taken seriously can seem almost as important as the treatment path itself at times.