My husband has stage IV brain cancer (glioblastoma multiforma). I have been juggling for 8 months now. I work and take care of EVERYTHING. It has gotten to the point that I have taken a leave from work. I am exhausted. Even my husbands 10 year old nephew commented on how tired I look. My family helps, my mom comes on her days off to care for Greg, a few friends come and help but our circle has become so small I hate even asking them for help. His family is no where to be found. His brothers seem to think, well who knows they don't call;. His dad on ocassion will help when I call and beg. Could this get any more humiliating. It's their son/brother, and I am at my wits end. Oh, and to add salt to a wound his mother is telling all kinds of stories about how I just want to take his money. While I would love to cut my losses and just write them off..It would make me as low as they are. Any suggestions on how to get people who offer to help to actually help?